Immorality, Sex objects, and Rampant Divorce

It has often been asserted that Islam is a religion of extremism. Yet, in all fairness, the same can be said of western culture when seen from all Islamic prospective. The two systems demonstrate very different ways of life but this does not necessarily mean that they have totally different values. An Islamic society is structured to obtain what many western people believe in and value but what they are unable to achieve through the way their society is structured. Many relationships in the west are treated as casual interludes. This casualness has allowed women to be degraded and men to be abusive. This is seen not only in Hollywood, in modelling and on television, but also in the workplace. This importance of the woman’s personality and character has been taken away and has been Replaced with something else – her appearance. Most significantly there has emerged a society of people set free from morality. No one should wonder why this society is so divorce ridden. Although reasons of divorce vary; one study highlights the distinct difference between Islamic societies (where strong closely knit family structures are the norm) and western style families.

A new study shows the risks of divorce or separation goes up for young married couples in the United States, if they live in an area with plenty of unmarried and unavailable men or women. This suggests many husbands and wives keep an eye out for a better partner. Researcher Scott J. South says “the more possibility they see, the better chance of finding someone worth leaving the marriage for.” He assumes unhappy marriages are especially vulnerable but he could not rule out some effect on people quite satisfied with their marriages who happen to meet the partner of their dreams.

This gives rise to the notion that in societies where casual sexual relationships are condoned and where women and men mix freely, that this could cause the likelihood of divorce to escalate drastically. While some divorces occur because the two people have simply grown apart, the study suggests that in a “liberated” society marriage break-ups are a result of cultural instability and societal pressures.

Furthermore, it seems reasonable to expect that men will have busier eyes when women are on parade in public dressing in order to garner attention. The natural inclination for men to gaze is within their nature and is not something that will go away or change. Men will not one day wake up and have a new sexual orientation, nor will they become magically decentralized to women. The way in which a woman dresses can either deter this inclination in men or heighten or even instigate unwanted attention from men. Today, western men are quite literally saturated by visual stimuli at every turn. Sex and sensuality is a dominating theme. Whether in a work place, in public, or on the TV screen, sex is everywhere.


About Imran Ali

IMRAN ALI, is an up-coming writer and columnist. His studies were interrupted when he, as a child of 14, simply told his father M. Sulemen, a businessman, that he just can't get what his school teacher teaches paying little attention to the weak students of the class. So, on a promise that he'll 'study at home' he never again saw the face of the school, though he carried his studies well to fullfill the promise of his; his experience as a volunteer(a dedicated social worker) provided him with material for his articles and writings. He first gained attention with ''Aurangzed as he was'' and ''New world Order 'Vs' Just world Order'' (September 2011, The Companion, English monthly, and several other magazines), probably his finest articles. Next 10 year he coming with his debut novel, and is fully dedicated on it's research. Taken together, his articles present a broad, naturalistic picture of Indian life. His subjects include History, the Indian peasantry, the bureaucracy, life of a downtrodden Indians and have nots, the emotional problems of the different classes, and, ominously, hallucination, Very new in Style and to Approach, Combining psychoanalysis with human behaviour. His writings well captures the collective psyche of the world as a whole. He's been a district level boxer. Known as a peoples magnet in his vast friends circle, and a booklover who humorously with pride discloses, '' I've read over hundreds of books relating to arts, literature, science, metaphysics, naturopathy and psychlogy. So, the conclusion here is easy to derive, that i, who was raised from childhood in a modern muslim belief have been mostly preferring reading all kinds of books rather than writing!'' His reading since childhood, has been mostly centered around knowing the truths[truth here means of all kinds humans ever categorized, mysteries and human psyche has given me a better understanding of the human soul, mind and spirit in collaboration with my Islamic teachings.] Since he started his reading at the age of 15 reading Stories of literary giants, like Leo tolstoy, George Orwell, and Guy de muppasant and many Indian masters like Sir Mohammed Iqbal(The Poet Of the East), Margret Marcus, Leopold weiss, and Manto. And their collective influence made me search for my own moorings, adapting my father's style of srorytelling. In the beginning, there was nothing magnificent in acquiring all this, from books, as it was nothing more beside his own interest, and his interest to help morally deprived and confused men he used to meet in parties and gatherings. And amazingly, only a few years back, an up an coming, extraordinarily talented writer and one of his closest friends of his, who always loved his ideas gave rise to a writer hiding somewhere inside him. When while sipping the tea he insisted him to collect his ideas in a diary which keep on counselling youngmen of varieties every third day resulting in a great interruption in our appointed informational communication. Suddenly, at the very instinct, the idea occured in his mind of writing down these ideas effectively, concisely and pertaining to the questions of todays' youth who are short of time resolving them. And with him as his inspiration, he picked up the pen, and started unfolding, writing in the name of the architect of this whole universe. Which is none other than ''Allah.''

7 comments on “Immorality, Sex objects, and Rampant Divorce

  1. The attack is on the social fabric of the society,excellent article.

  2. Imran , Its Really a Good Information about the reason of divorce. Cheating with your partner is found a common reason for divorce

  3. “men will have busier eyes when women are on parade in public dressing in order to garner attention.” ~ very well said!
    But the fact remains the same, “Allāh does not change the condition of the people unless they change themselves.” Media, society, democracy, feminism, these terms have corrupted the thought and soul from the roots, from the core! People need to realise this, and open their eyes!

  4. The embattled gates to equal rights indeed opened up for modern women, but I sometimes think to myself; that is not what I meant by freedom, it is only a deception

  5. Sex is likes any instincts put in all creatures as same as need for eating, drinking,dressing for summer or
    winter,need to safe or peace…
    But,,as Allah put that instincts he puts the rules that control us

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